If you’ve been dating a lot of players recently, this new, emotionally available behavior may seem startling. When a guy genuinely likes you, he wants to spend time with you, regardless of what you do together.So if your cutie invites you to hang out and watch movies at his place, get coffee after work, or meet at the Laundromat on Sunday night so you can keep each other company while washing your clothes, chances are good that he’s into you.But there's one indicator that women underestimate, and sometimes even take as a bad sign: Is he appreciative? It's too easy psychologically to have deep-seated fears that we aren't worthy of affection, so when someone cares for us we push them away.But as long as you do that, the only guys you'll ever want won't really want you back, and you can see where that's headed.If you feel comfortable, let him know you’re interested by gently touching him in a similar fashion from time to time. He Takes an Interest in your Interests A surefire way to know if your man sees a future with you is if he takes an interest in your interests.Even if it’s something that doesn’t appeal to him, like Pilates, painting, or your Portuguese language lessons, he’ll encourage you to pursue your interests and ask you about them.In fact, if you’re dating someone who’s really into you, he’ll routinely touch your arm when he’s talking, stroke your back reassuringly, and hold your hand when the time is right.These displays of affection show respect, intimacy, and interest.
When a guy’s really into you, he not only makes you a part of the conversation, but he also asks for your input, listens intently, and responds appropriately.
If a guy has ulterior motives or just isn’t interested in who you really are, he won’t bother looking you in the eye.
So if your cutie catches and keeps your gaze, smile and return his gaze, enjoying the fact that he’s really into you. He Leans in when you’re Talking Not only will your man maintain eye contact if he’s into you, but his body language will be equally telling.
Check out the following 10 signs that show your sweetie’s really into you. He Calls for no Reason If your guy’s really into you, he doesn’t wait five days after a date to call you. He Actively Seeks out your Company Not only does your guy call if he’s really into you, but he also makes an effort to see you regularly.
Instead, he calls you whenever he feels like it, even if it’s just to say hi and see how your day is going. And it’s not just about having a hot date on Saturday night.