They say that they trust God’s will for their future but they are lying. I have met many others who were living it up until the economy crashed.
I have met some who had it all but God insisted they give it up to go and further the gospel. Many ladies forget that good Christian men look for women who share similar non-romantic, non-spiritual values: Sure he should be romantic and sure he must share those spiritual values but eerrmmm ladies…these Christian brothers are looking for those other character traits as well that speak to the OPERATION of your possible lives together.
(And I’m not just talking about finances here)They don’t want to put themselves out there at all.
They want the man to take ALL the risks…to be utterly convinced he wants to be with them before they open up about who they really are.
In fact, there is a powerful 2 part series on just that HERE: 5.
Good Christian men know their worth too and don’t want to settle either: Yea ladies…men are understanding their worth a bit more too.
These men would have had a rough time finding a wife today. Abraham calling sister Sarah aside after church and saying “Errrmmm Sarah you know I love you right? “Look baby…I really care about you and want to spend the rest of my life taking care of you…
Soooo God wants to take us somewhere …but I have no idea where. In fact, I’ve just been anointed King…buuutttt I’m kinda living in the bushes right now and on the run from the King I’m supposed to replace.” Or Joseph.
“Look Jill, God has shown me many dreams that people will bow down to me and I’ll be a great leader.
(Rom ) Don’t look for a man who already has the best laid plans.
Look for one who knows how to follow directions from the best planner. Many ladies approach relationships from the perspective of “Low Risk, High Reward”: Meaning, they want to get the absolute best man with the least amount of risk.