"Older generations saw work as a separate place," says Renee Cowan, Ph.
Yes, it's embarrassing, but you'll be glad you did.Sarah, a 30-year-old graphic designer, met Matt through a colleague at the imaging tech company where they both worked."I didn't really notice him at first because he had a beard, and beards weren't my thing," she says."I did not ask, and I spent the next six months wondering if every work email he sent was a subtle invitation to get at it again," says Mia, 30, a management consultant in New York."None were, and my work life would've been better if I'd known that."__Don't Flirt (Too Much) __If you do decide to start a relationship, remember that others will probably pick up on the sparks.