I hope everyone is on track to crushing your goals for 2016!When I first heard the term "swingers," it was on a talk show and I thought it was a crazy concept, like you might as you are reading this.Yet these were never the types of people Christy and Mark encountered. They had one night of awkward passion before Lana ripped into Ken about losing his job at a local car dealership.Then there was the aluminum-siding guy and his wife, a manicurist.
For instance, one partner might enjoy the way someone else can satisfy them that their long term partner cannot do for them.“We were so blown away and completely turned on,” he says, “that we wanted to explore more.” At the party, they only watched, but when they got home, it was all they talked about. Nevertheless, they came up with rules, including: No. Writing those rules, they’d find, was easier than keeping them. They were shocked when Frank and Wendy showed up, looking a good 15 years older than their profile photo. “As virgins, you probably don’t want to do full swap first time out of the gate,” Wendy said. “Full swap is mutual exchange,” she said, “up to and including penetration.Intercourse.” Wendy advised they start off with “soft swaps” — everything but.I began to learn why this type of relationship can work for anyone willing to follow the rules, respect one another, be honest, get tested for STDs, use protection, and be very selective in choosing partners and remaining private about such a new way of what some couples swear by, a healthy relationship.In the swinging world, couples make their own rules around what they need within relationships and marriages and vow to abide by the boundaries set forth.