Every Israeli man is on the opposite side of the meter. To make it more clear, let’s visualise the lowest and the highest measurements of a meter: Liz Gilbert said that every city has a word: Vatican is “power”, New York is “achieve”, Los Angeles is “succeed” and Rome is “sex.” I differed when I got to know Israel. The “coolest” kids on the block enjoy this type of “dating.” ( Being in dates multiple times is inevitable but when the bond is building deeply to the direction of eventually being in a relationship (aka going to the normal parameter), they tend to walk away even if nothing is wrong. But you know, different humans, different life dynamics. Not that there are many fishes in the Mediterranean sea but that’s what I do. But to control the situation is a total turn-off for me. Do I still have the energy and heart to love and accept everything that is happening around me? For me, if a guy insists and rejects my offer, it means he really wants to do it. That was what the Israeli reader comment was implying. I don’t have any problems that Israeli men are paying.In general, when you are dating an Israeli man, they keep the tradition of charm, allure, and passion that will make you fall head over feet. Sure, they might be the most chill people I’ve ever met but not when it comes to relationships or dating. They just don’t want to engage nor participate in a deeper level of intimacy because of a myriad of reasons. I am a pure believer of the going with the flow adage. If it happens to you, don’t be confused if one day, they want to stop seeing you and couldn’t explain why. It seems like it’s a responsibility for them when in fact, we can all just chill and avoid ruining something beautiful. It was still hard to believe that I am making a life here, creating relationships, having neighbours you can share meals with, going to a bar where everyone addresses you with the first name, etc. My only concern is that they feel like they have to do it by default because of their gender.
Women don’t want to be cat-called but seriously, when flocked together, we are the worst in talking about men, most especially if you are single and foreign in a country where men are extremely physically attractive.
I was willing to cross the line of the capabilities of the human body because I really liked him. Despite the mutual creative energy we shared, I couldn’t do that kind of lifestyle. And come on, we are in our 30’s and still growing backward? In no particular order, her favourite cities in the world are Barcelona, Buenos Aires, Hong Kong and Tel Aviv.
I will never find any growth to that even if a man label it as “just for fun.” I am too old for this substance shit. Follow her life adventures on Instagram: @psimonmyway Its been so long since i dated but i once met a guy who brought me to see parents, siblings, nephews, nieces, cousins on a first date. 😀 Very interesting article and I love your honesty in it!
This seemed to be one of the best features of my life in Tel Aviv.
I found it so easy to be here not because of the men but the people of Israel in general.