Acknowledge that how the other person reacts, and their ability to maintain even a superficial or polite relationship after a perceived rejection, may be inherently limited and beyond your control.
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Even if you don’t realize it at the time, this was a huge step in trust.
Over time, you will learn the nuances of the disorder.
I hate to say it, but your best option is to leave. It didn't appear until about three years into the relationship. As for getting help, it isn't going to do any good. And makes me feel a bit better about the whole situation.. Sounds as if your BF is just a jerk.- Constant lying, with just about anything!
Help does nothing until the person admits the problem and wants help for themselves. I'm sorry to say bi polar people can be be very exciting and charming.. No matter big or small - Stealing, especially money..
Some of these qualities make it hard on a relationship, so a person must weigh whether he or she wants stability over excitement, he said. Brodsky said there’s no perfect time to end a relationship with someone who is bipolar.“Of course leaving without warning or discussion will be destabilizing for the other person, but if it is an issue of safety, you must protect yourself,” Dr. “Even if there is no risk of danger or violence, keep in mind that you cannot predict or take responsibility for the other person’s behaviors.They may respond with more intense anxiety, depression or anger than you expect or they might have been closer to wanting to break it off themselves than you realized, and may react with relief —or denial.” Dr.I was talking to one of my close friends the other day and she was saying how the things he does relates to her sister, who is diagnosed with bi-polar. We've been together for 3 years and I do love him, but it's getting the point where I'm going to break it off because it's so unhealthy.That includes: - Constant lying, with just about anything! I was talking to one of my close friends the other day and she was saying how the things he does relates to her sister, who is diagnosed with bi-polar.