I was asked, within three message exchanges, by a man from Solihull, my thoughts on anal sex (dinner first, at least please) and invited out for lunch by an elderly gentleman who lived in Yorkshire who then sent me a picture of himself holding a fish with a message ‘joking’ about how tight Yorkshire men were with money.I wasn’t quite sure if this was a post-modern comment on the randomness of online dating or that he was victim of early onset dementia. With profiles demanding that ‘you will be slim, attractive and available for lunchtime meet-ups’ and messages detailing that ‘I like going out and staying in, weekends away and holidays in the sun’ from anonymous (aka married) members, being about as creative as they came, I began to think that when targeting a man with dough, a girl is best off fishing in a slightly more transparent pool – i.e.one that does what it says on the tin rather than masquerading as a traditional dating site. Within 10 minutes of being live I had an inbox full of emails from men detailing what they’d require from me and asking what I’d expect in exchange. I started chatting to a ‘millionaire’ and within three email exchanges he was talking about what a strong connection he felt we had, and how he couldn’t wait to ‘make love to me’.cuts to the chase – and while I was now dubious at how many more ‘millionaires’ would be on there than were on at least I wouldn’t have to invest quite so much time talking about trouts in Yorkshire or anal sex. When you join, you fill in a form in the profile section detailing your desired arrangement and expectation, ranging from moderate to substantial and high. I couldn’t help but be a little suspicious at quite how genuine the intentions of some of the men on the site were with messages including ‘I’d like to book you next Thursday’, and ‘my last arrangement included ‘£250 a week, £1,000 per month longterm – how does that sound? Just to clarify, for those of you picturing Richard Gere, he was a balding, married, retired accountant in his sixties, I was a 34-year-old barmaid (I was thinking on my feet).That might be why we've seen the rise of the no-nonsense hookup forums on Reddit.In addition to offering subreddits for topics from , which is more generalized and allows women to solicit favors from gentlemen.
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