Maybe he plays coy, as if he doesn't know you didn't hear about it, and then invites you out himself.He probably wouldn't go to this unless he knew you were going to be there and had an opportunity to talk to you.2. This is really "stage two" of asking if you're going to a group event.For example, if a guy messaging you on a dating website is prompt and regular with his responses, this is a sign that he’s genuinely interested.By contrast, if a man takes more time than is reasonable to reply to your messages and constantly apologises for his tardiness as he sends a swift, rushed response, I’m afraid he’s just not that into you. It actually pains me to admit why I feel qualified to write about this.You see, I have been “that guy”, leading women along for whatever selfish reason or motive I had at that particular time.Maybe a new restaurant opened up, or there's a concert he's got an extra ticket to. If he says that, he's basically asking you on a date, but if you seem uneasy, he can always back peddle. He's gone out of his way to do you pretty major favors, like drive you to the airport. If he's asking you to an event and it takes longer than half a second to get the question out, he likes you.It's a safe way to get time with you, but it can also lead to confusion.4. All right, now this dude is just pulling things out of the cliche "nice guy" handbook. Trust me when I say no one ever, wants to drive someone else to the airport, unless they're secretly hoping you've got another ticket and are about to invite them off on some wild adventure that involves a Grecian island and bathing suits. He has very awkwardly invited you to a wedding as his plus-one. Anytime a guy has to clarify with "it's not a date" or "I hope this doesn't come off the wrong way," it's because he's into you.7. Maybe he goes out of his way to walk through your department so he's got a chance to talk to you. Verizon is going to charge you extra because those vibes are so fucking heavy they just sent you over your data limit.
On the one hand, if you're not into them, it helps your cute coworker avoid the awkwardness of potential rejection.
However, there is a caveat to this somewhat foreboding tale – men vary.
From thoroughly bloody nice chaps, to suave gentlemen with varying motives, to Lotharios with questionable morals, to downright cheating rats, and their motivations for dating vary as well.
We enjoy the challenge – the chase – and we also enjoy the attention.
Guys can be just as insecure as women can, and knowing there’s a woman interested in you, let alone a number of them, is a great ego boost.