His mission as a life coach is to help others undergo the same transformation he did — in a much shorter time frame.To that end, he now runs a free course called “30 Days to Social Freedom,” in which he gives people short assignments and word-for-word scripts to get their confidence up in social settings.Jay works one-on-one with his clients and uses a variety of tools to help them master themselves so they’re open to life’s opportunities.His support and advice guides singles along their journey to love.Whatever is standing in a person’s way, Jay knows that his clients have the ability to overcome it — his job is getting them to realize that, too. “I help people with every aspect of their lives, and I like being that resource for them.” Growing up, Jay wasn’t the most outgoing kid in his class; in fact, most of the time he felt downright awkward.He watched popular and outgoing kids with wonder, wishing he could be so naturally gifted.
After almost 20 years of helping singles, date coaching is second nature to Jay.
Her dating profile attracted a 37-year-old man with a heart of gold.
He didn’t live in New York, but he was smitten with her from the moment they met.
When she described her new love interest to Jay, he told her, “I guarantee you, this guy is going to marry you. It’s not going to happen tomorrow, but just take your time and enjoy the relationship.” She was only too happy to follow his advice.
Sure enough, after only a year of dating, the couple got married in a beautiful ceremony.