You become soft because you have the scarcity mentality. You think there are just a few women out there and there’s nothing you can do about it. Holding your uniqueness in high regard is not “egotism”.
You think: “There is NOBODY out there for me so I better treat this one girl amazing because I don’t know if and when I will ever experience this again”. It’s a necessary precondition to happiness and success.
Jincey Lumpkin, who in 2012 gave a TEDx talk on the possibility of humans having sexual relationships with sentient robots, compares the and truly evolved man-to-machine romance: consent.
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There are dozens of these stories bouncing about the web.When you ask a woman what she want’s in a man one of the first thing she’ll say is “a nice guy”.Yes, it’s what women want, but it’s not what they .And I am not suggesting that you go completely 180 right now and turn into an arrogant jerk either. Deep down in there is the soft chewy center of a man.It’s not a bad thing to be soft and vulnerable inside, but just be aware that women are not necessarily ATTRACTED to the soft, limp man until she’s first seen the HARD side of him.