“There were a lot of the ‘boy toy’ remarks, and I will say it mostly came from men my age — there’s a threatening aspect to a woman dating a younger man,” she says.
“You’re less likely to date a younger guy who’s been divorced, has children or has sexual performance issues.” In 2011, she met Juan Cabrera, now 34, at one of her mixers and soon fell in love. “Millennial men are career-focused and want to travel with successful women and conquer the world together,” says Soletti, who notes she’s seen an uptick in established women signing up specifically to meet younger bucks at her speed-dating events.A little less than two weeks later, during her sorority semi-formal, I got all her closest sorority sisters to help out and I asked her to marry me. Two college students only 15 minutes away from each other, but yet had never meet. We began talking sometime between October 2013 and November 2013 on this site.We met at the beginning of February 2014 and somehow got into a relationship on Valentine's Day.While they were “well-established and articulate,” she wasn’t physically attracted to them and found they had too many issues.So, six years ago, she started dating studs in their 20s and 30s — and she hasn’t looked back.