Don’t think of texting as a way of exchanging data, think of it as a way of giving her feelings (which she then associates with you).
Principle #3 – Metal is easier to bend when it’s red hot – Let’s say you want to bend a metal pipe.
If you send plain, boring texts like “Hey, how’s it going?
Before long, she loses interest, starts replying less and less, and then just stops replying altogether.
If she’s getting a bunch of typical, boring texts from you, and other guys are sending her texts that make her feel good and capture her interest, she’s going to go out with them and not you. To begin with, the phone number by itself is totally useless, and here’s why: When a girl gives you her number, she’s not giving you a guarantee of a date.
She’s only giving you an invitation to keep contacting her.
If you give her a spike of positive feelings with your texts and THEN ask her out…
that’s like heating up the metal and then bending it. When you ask her out while she’s feeling good about you, the chances of her saying yes are much higher.